不辞而别的事吧
“without saying goodbye.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你就别弄些
“Just don't leave”
不辞而别 的事吧
“without saying goodbye.”
你明天去看票
“You go check for tickets tomorrow.”
“Don't even think about sneaking out on me like you always do.”
In Chinese interpersonal relations, departing without explicitly saying goodbye ('bu ci er bie') is considered irresponsible, disrespectful, and emotionally hurtful.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to leave without saying goodbye; French leave
A very common Chengyu (four-character idiom) used in everyday spoken Chinese to describe sneaking away unannounced.
Softens the warning while seeking implicit compliance or agreement from the listener.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“forgive me for leaving without saying goodbye.”
“is not something you may resign at will.”
“Don't keep bringing up leaving.”
“you can tell me directly. Don't just leave a letter and disappear.”
“leave with as little pain as possible”
“If you don't want to go, then don't.”