你别自己跟自己过不去了好不好
“Stop making things hard on yourself, okay?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你休想
“don't even think about it.”
你 别 自己跟自己过不去 了 好不好
“Stop making things hard on yourself, okay?”
你儿子都签字了
“Your son has already signed.”
“Stop fighting a battle you already lost; you're only hurting yourself by staying stubborn.”
Advising someone not to 'fight themselves' often serves as a pragmatic push toward acceptance and peace of mind when facing irreversible collective or family outcomes.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
make things hard on oneself; torment oneself
A highly frequent colloquial idiom used to advise someone against stubborn self-destruction or dwelling on grievances.
okay? / all right?
Placed at the end of a plea or command to soften an urgent appeal while demanding compliance.
Combined with '别' (bié... le) to signal a demand to cease an ongoing emotional state or action.
