真的过去了吗
“put this behind you?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
这件事情在你心里
“have you really”
真的过去了 吗
“put this behind you?”
“It doesn't matter whether I have or not.”
“I know you claim you are fine, but are you really over it?”
In close Chinese relationships, people often worry about unspoken resentments lingering in the heart (心结), requiring explicit verbal reassurance.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
really; truly
Placed before a verb or adjective to inquire about authenticity or seek earnest reassurance.
passed; over and done with
Metaphorically refers to emotional baggage, arguments, or bad memories being resolved.
Turns a statement into a standard yes-no question seeking confirmation.