我三哥的事 由不得你来置喙
“Xu's affairs are not yours to meddle in.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
况且王姑娘 也未必对段公子有意
“Besides, Miss Wang may not favor Mr. Duan.”
我三哥的事 由不得你 来 置喙
“Xu's affairs are not yours to meddle in.”
“Know your place and keep your mouth shut about my brother.”
Commenting on someone's family or superiors without proper social standing is viewed as an offensive breach of propriety and hierarchy.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
not allow; cannot be decided by
Used to firmly deny someone the right, permission, or freedom to make decisions or take actions.
to meddle with words; to make comments
A classical idiom commonly used in negative structures to aggressively command someone not to interfere with speech.