宁愿委屈自己 也不麻烦别人的人
“who would rather wrong yourself than trouble others.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你呀 就是
“You are just someone”
宁愿委屈自己 也不麻烦别人 的人
“who would rather wrong yourself than trouble others.”
你说这汪若海怎么回事啊
“What is wrong with Wang Ruohai?”
“Stop being such a martyr; you hurt yourself trying to please everyone.”
A deeply rooted Chinese social instinct where individuals go to extreme lengths to avoid burdening friends or acquaintances, often turning into maladaptive people-pleasing.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
would rather... than...
Used to show a deliberate preference or character inclination choosing the lesser of two perceived evils.
swallow one's own grievances; put oneself out
A core cultural phrase denoting suppressing one's personal comfort, needs, or dignity for the sake of peace or others.
inconvenience or burden others
Essential everyday phrase in Chinese social psychology reflecting anxiety about creating relational debt.
