别总觉得别人 都跟你一样
“not take anyone else as a goody-goody”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
我劝你一句
“I suggest you”
别 总觉得 别人 都跟你一样
“not take anyone else as a goody-goody”
烂好人
“like you.”
“Stop being so naive and assuming everyone has good intentions like you; people will take advantage of you.”
In contemporary Chinese interpersonal culture, 'lan hao ren' refers to an excessive people-pleaser who lacks personal boundaries, cannot say no, and constantly compromises or yields to others. It is often viewed as a lack of practical social survival wisdom.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
don't always assume that... / stop constantly thinking that...
Used in spoken Chinese to advise someone or point out a blind spot in their habitual way of thinking.
a pushover, doormat, or unprincipled people-pleaser who compromises their own interests to appease others
A colloquial derogatory or teasing term, often used to remind someone that kindness must have boundaries and backbone.
