亲家 不怕您笑话
“In-law, this may sound embarrassing,”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“what happened exactly? Please tell me.”
亲家 不怕您笑话
“In-law, this may sound embarrassing,”
您也知道我们田家 以前是骆家的家奴
“but you also know our Tian family used to be bondservants to the Luo family.”
“Please don't judge me or look down on me for what I am about to admit.”
Chinese speakers frequently lower their own status or pre-emptively acknowledge potential embarrassment to preserve face before revealing humble origins or private troubles.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
at the risk of embarrassing myself; forgive me if this sounds ridiculous
A polite, self-deprecating formula used before sharing an awkward, embarrassing, or humble truth.