这么晚打电话干吗
“Why are you calling so late?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
跟你爸正准备睡呢
“We were just going to bed.”
这么晚打电话干吗
“Why are you calling so late?”
瑜在您那儿吗
“Is Yu there?”
“We were just about to sleep; tell me quickly what is going on.”
Chinese parents often speak with frank, unvarnished directness ('干吗') to their children without formal politeness formulas, signaling close family bonds rather than true hostility.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
why; what for
Highly colloquial Northern Mandarin equivalent of 做什么, often used when feeling mildly irritated, rushed, or casually curious.
so late
Standard collocation to indicate an unusually late hour.