我没怪你当时的隐瞒
“I don't blame you for hiding it back then.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
我 没怪你 当时的 隐瞒
“I don't blame you for hiding it back then.”
那你是怨我
“Then are you blaming me”
“I understand why you hid it, but what hurts is that you kept shutting me out afterward.”
Chinese speakers often open difficult emotional confrontations by absolving the initial factual fault, allowing a deeper emotional grievance to surface indirectly.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
not blaming you; don't fault you
Commonly used in interpersonal apologies and reconciliations to relieve the other party of guilt.
to conceal; to hide the truth
A neutral-to-formal verb referring to deliberately withholding facts or information.