死要面子活受罪
“You'd rather suffer than lose face.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
就是太犟
“You're too stubborn.”
死要面子活受罪
“You'd rather suffer than lose face.”
“If you ask me, reading a letter is no big deal.”
“They are foolishly torturing themselves just to keep up appearances.”
While 'mianzi' (social respect/reputation) is vital in Chinese culture, this proverb serves as a pragmatic critique against obsessively defending dignity at the cost of practical well-being.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
obsessed with saving face at the expense of real suffering
A common colloquial idiom used to mock or scold someone whose stubborn pride brings them tangible misery.