您不能总是自说自话
“You can't just go on like that without considering others.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
我已经有对象了
“I already have a girlfriend.”
您 不能 总是 自说自话
“You can't just go on like that without considering others.”
至于我做什么工作
“As for my job”
“Stop imposing your plans on me and actually listen to what I am saying.”
Using the polite pronoun '您' while openly rebuking someone shows a tension between traditional respect for elders and modern individual boundaries.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
acting or speaking unilaterally without consulting others; monologuing
Commonly used in spoken Chinese to criticize someone who ignores feedback and decides things alone.