刚才我说话 您别往心里去啊
“please don't take what I said earlier to heart.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
对 罚一个 对 罚一个 老领导
“A penalty toast. Right. A penalty toast. Sir,”
刚才 我说 话 您 别往心里去 啊
“please don't take what I said earlier to heart.”
“I'm just someone who speaks my mind directly. I'll drink.”
“I know I overstepped my bounds earlier; please forgive my bluntness and don't hold a grudge against me.”
At Chinese dinner tables, alcohol is used as a social lubricant to resolve tension. Apologizing to a superior while voluntarily drinking a penalty cup restores the superior's 'mianzi' (face) and excuses one's bluntness.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
don't take it to heart / don't be offended
Essential phrase for apologizing after making a blunt, awkward, or potentially offensive remark.
Softens the plea and adds warmth and sincerity to the apology.