你考虑过我的感受吗
“Have you ever considered my feelings?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
是为我好吗
“Was it for my own good?”
你 考虑过我的感受吗
“Have you ever considered my feelings?”
那现在你知道了
“Well, now you know.”
“Stop pretending this was for my benefit; you only care about yourself.”
In Chinese interpersonal dynamics, acting 'for your own good' (为你好) is often used to justify paternalistic control, which the younger or vulnerable party often feels compelled to push back against emotionally.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
consider someone's feelings
A highly frequent expression in emotional arguments to call out someone's lack of empathy.
Turns the sentence into an accusatory rhetorical question asserting that the listener never considered their feelings.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“But did you ever care about how I felt?”
“Did you ever think about how I'd feel?”
“but have you ever considered my feelings at all?”
“But you didn't consider my feelings, Mom.”
“Do you even care about me?”
“Have you considered me?”