却来劝我宽容一点
“asking me to be the bigger person,”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
而你
“Yet you're here”
却来 劝我宽容一点
“asking me to be the bigger person,”
大度一些
“to be more forgiving?”
“You have no right to lecture me about forgiveness when you are not the one suffering.”
Chinese interpersonal dynamics often critique observers who preach forgiveness without suffering the harm, famously captured in modern slang as 'stay away from people who劝 you to be generous before knowing what happened'.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
persuade me to be forgiving/tolerant
Commonly used when someone feels wrongfully pressured by an outsider to let go of a personal grievance.