你是东家 还是她是东家呀
“Are you the master, or is she the master?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你怕她生气
“You are afraid of her getting angry?”
你 是 东家 还是 她 是 东家 呀
“Are you the master, or is she the master?”
好气呀
“I'm so mad!”
“You are the boss here, so stop cowering and letting her dictate terms.”
In Chinese business and household hierarchies, the 'dongjia' (master/owner) is expected to maintain authority; surrendering control to an employee or outsider causes loss of respect.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
proprietor / master / boss
A traditional term denoting the business owner, employer, or ultimate decision-maker.
or (in alternative questions)
Used to link two opposing alternatives in questions demanding a choice.
Heightens the rhetorical, exasperated edge of the alternative question.