这么大事怎么不跟我商量
“Why didn't you discuss this big decision with me?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你怎么想一出是一出啊
“Why do you always act on impulse?”
这么大事怎么不跟我商量
“Why didn't you discuss this big decision with me?”
“You completely ignored me and made a huge decision behind my back.”
In Chinese family ethics, spouses and immediate family members are expected to discuss major matters together ('da shi gong shang'). Making major decisions unilaterally (such as quitting a job, buying property, or making large investments) is often viewed as a sign of distrust and disrespect toward one's partner or family.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to act on a whim; to be erratic and do whatever comes to mind without careful thought or planning
A high-frequency colloquial idiom often used to criticize or complain about close relatives or friends acting impulsively and lacking stability.
to consult with someone; to discuss something with someone to reach an agreement
A fundamental prepositional pattern commonly used to describe seeking another person's opinion before making an important decision.
