先跟我商量一下行不行
“you should discuss it with me first, alright?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“You can. Go ahead. My opinion is that before you make a decision,”
先 跟我商量 一下 行不行
“you should discuss it with me first, alright?”
“It's not just this once. Hasn't it always been like this before, Lin Zhanqiao?”
“Stop making unilateral decisions behind my back and respect my existence.”
In Chinese romantic partnerships, negotiating and discussing decisions beforehand (商量) is considered an essential sign of emotional commitment and mutual respect.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
discuss it with me first
A common spoken phrase used to request consultation before action is taken.
is that okay / can you do that
Placed at the end of a request or demand, often carrying impatience or pressure for consent.