她是心里有道坎啊
“She just can't”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
真的是会变的
“really do change.”
她 是 心里有道坎 啊
“She just can't”
过不去
“get past it.”
“Don't blame her; she went through something painful and simply cannot move on yet.”
Chinese speakers frequently conceptualize emotional trauma or psychological blockages as a physical threshold or hurdle (坎) that one must cross over to achieve closure.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
having an emotional hurdle or lingering trauma in one's heart
Use this highly idiomatic phrase to describe when someone cannot overcome past psychological pain or emotional resentment.
Softens the assertion while inviting mutual empathy and emphasizing the emotional truth.