谈了好几次恋爱
“for marriage.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“After work, I dated several times”
谈了好几次恋爱
“for marriage.”
“How could I be so shameless back then?”
“I was treating dating like a practical checklist rather than feeling genuine love.”
In contemporary urban China, dating 'with marriage as the sole objective' (以结婚为目的) is common due to social pressure, but reflective youths often grapple with feeling that this approach lacks genuine passion.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to date; to be in a romantic relationship
A foundational verb-object compound used widely across spoken Mandarin for romantic dating.
several times; multiple times
Use '好几' before a measure word to emphasize 'quite a few' or 'several'.
Indicates completion of the action across multiple past instances.