你怎么背着人家交另外的朋友呀
“Why did you make new friends behind my back?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
不认识
“No?”
你 怎么 背着人家 交另外的 朋友 呀
“Why did you make new friends behind my back?”
你怎么对人家这样呀
“How can you treat me like that?”
“You are caught doing something sneaky, so explain yourself!”
Using '人家' (renjia) to refer to oneself or an aggrieved party softens criticism, creating a cute or teasing dynamic rather than harsh conflict.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
behind someone's back / behind my back
Commonly used in spoken Chinese where '人家' can mean 'someone else' or cutely refer to the speaker themselves.
make other friends / see other people
A natural phrase for expanding one's social or romantic circle beyond an existing bond.
Softens the rhetorical accusation into a lighthearted, playful, or wheedling reproach.