都是儿媳管家不力
“It's my failure as the household manager.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“Our social expenses this year have increased.”
都是儿媳 管家不力
“It's my failure as the household manager.”
这不是你的错
“It is not your fault.”
“Please don't be upset; I will take the blame to show proper filial deference.”
In traditional Chinese families, a daughter-in-law often proactively assumes blame to show respect, maintain domestic harmony, and preserve the elder's face.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
poor management of household affairs
A formal, self-deprecating classical idiom used in domestic or historical contexts to take the blame for household mismanagement.