啥应该不应该的呀
“Don't speak like that.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
啥 应该不应该 的呀
“Don't speak like that.”
“Don't dwell on the past. Look ahead.”
“Don't torture yourself with 'what-ifs'; what's done is done.”
When facing irreversible life decisions (like having a child), Chinese family members often advocate pragmatism—urging one another to look forward rather than dwell on regret.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
there is no 'should' or 'shouldn't'
Colloquial pattern '啥 X 不 X 的' used to brush off a dilemma or dismiss someone's excessive rumination.
Softens the rhetorical dismissal, conveying warmth and comfort rather than harsh criticism.