这钱啊 妈不能要
“I can't take the money.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
儿子
“Son.”
这钱啊 妈 不能要
“I can't take the money.”
“It's not easy for you to make money out there.”
“Keep it for yourself; I care more about your wellbeing than receiving money.”
Chinese parents often reflexively decline financial support from adult children, prioritizing the child's financial security over their own material gain.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
cannot accept / cannot take
Used to firmly but warmly refuse gifts or money, conveying moral or emotional hesitation rather than physical inability.
away from home / out in the world
Commonly used by parents to refer to children living and working away from their hometown.
Softens the refusal and pauses the sentence to add warmth and motherly affection.