忙得谁也顾不上谁了
“to take care of each other.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你们都忙
“You are too busy”
忙得谁也 顾不上 谁了
“to take care of each other.”
“Your mother-in-law and I have been married for so many years.”
“We don't neglect each other out of malice—life and work just keep us too exhausted for romance.”
In long-standing Chinese marriages ('old husband, old wife'), overt emotional displays or regular pampering are often replaced by unspoken pragmatic companionship amidst busy routines.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
unable to attend to; cannot take care of
Used when one is too preoccupied with pressing matters to manage or care for something else.
neither... the other; nobody... anyone
A reciprocal negative pattern emphasizing mutual inaction or inability.
Signifies a change of circumstances or current reality where busyness dominates daily life.