这么一说是 挺不称职的啊
“Put that way, I am pretty incompetent.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
这么一说 是 挺不称职的 啊
“Put that way, I am pretty incompetent.”
称的什么职啊
“Incompetent at what?”
“I admit I've fallen short, but please understand my situation.”
Admitting personal inadequacy (不称职) is a cultural strategy to preempt further blame and display humble self-reflection (反省).
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
putting it that way / now that you mention it
A common conversational transition phrase used when yielding to the other person's perspective.
incompetent / derelict in duty
Originally an official term for failing job duties, colloquially extended to personal roles like partner or parent.
Softens the realization and reflects a sigh-like admission of guilt.