你说他们这自说自话
“They just invite themselves over”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
没注意被门给夹了
“I wasn't paying attention and got my hand caught in the door.”
你说 他们这 自说自话
“They just invite themselves over”
来我们家都几回了
“and have been here so many times.”
“They are completely crossing the line by doing whatever they please without our consent.”
In close Chinese social circles, people sometimes presume familiarity and act without explicit consent, which often causes unspoken resentment or private complaints like this.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
acting entirely on one's own without consulting others; monologue-like presumption
Used to criticize someone for acting arbitrarily or assuming agreement without actually checking.
look at this / wouldn't you say
A conversational opener used to invite agreement or draw empathetic attention when complaining.
