这就是你不懂事了
“That's just being naïve.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
这就是 你不懂 事了
“That's just being naïve.”
结婚这么大的事 你连喜糖都舍不得请大家吃
“Getting married is a big deal. If you won't even give out wedding candy,”
“You are being cheap and making a fool of yourself by ignoring basic social decencies.”
Distributing wedding sweets to peers is an obligatory gesture in China to share happiness; skipping it is perceived as stingy and socially ignorant.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
tactless / lacking social grace / inconsiderate
Commonly used by elders or peers to criticize someone who disregards social decorum and relational expectations.
this is where you are not...
A direct colloquial formula used to point out another person's mistake or poor judgment.
Softens the judgment while indicating an evaluative conclusion has been reached.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“You are too insensible”
“Why can't you understand them?”
“That's where you don't get it.”
“Yeah, aren't you sensible? She's more sensible.”