人家都这么主动了 你也得表示表示
“She's already putting herself out there. You should show some interest too.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“Stay and have a bite with us. No.”
人家 都这么主动了 你也得 表示表示
“She's already putting herself out there. You should show some interest too.”
“Don't just stand there playing hard to get—step up and show her you are interested!”
In Chinese social and family dynamics, third parties often play active roles in urging young adults to reciprocate romantic interest so opportunities are not missed and face is preserved.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
taking this much initiative / so proactive
Commonly used in dating contexts to describe someone who clearly makes the first move.
to show some gesture / to make a token effort
A reduplicated verb used colloquially to softly demand or suggest showing courtesy, appreciation, or reciprocal action.
Marks a change of state and underscores the existing fact that the other party has already made a move.
