这么大的事
“Why didn't you tell me about such a big thing at the time?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
现在说你的腿
“Now let's talk about your legs.”
这么大的事
“Why didn't you tell me about such a big thing at the time?”
“Why didn't you tell me about such a big thing at the time?”
“How could you hide something so serious from me?”
In close Chinese relationships, concealing a serious injury or hardship is often done to prevent worrying others, but finding out about it later often provokes deep hurt and reproach because true intimacy implies sharing life-and-death burdens together.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
such a major matter / an event of this magnitude
Used to emphasize the gravity of an issue, often when questioning why it was ignored, downplayed, or concealed.