该狠心的时候狠不下心
“Can't be ruthless when you need to be.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你太软弱了
“You're too soft.”
该狠心的时候狠不下心
“Can't be ruthless when you need to be.”
“Hesitate to act when action is required.”
“Your misplaced compassion and lack of backbone are ruining everything.”
In competitive or high-stakes Chinese contexts, being unable to 'harden one's heart' is viewed not as kindness, but as a critical weakness that leads to defeat.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
cannot bring oneself to be ruthless / unable to steel one's heart
A very frequent potential complement used when someone hesitates to be strict, cruel, or decisive toward others.
when one ought to be firm or ruthless
Used to denote critical moments where sentimentality must be discarded in favor of pragmatism.