原来不管 现在出事了 成亲儿子了
“You didn't take care of him. After she had an accident, he is her own son now?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
还是吃你们家一口饭了
“or your family?”
原来不管 现在 出事了 成亲儿子了
“You didn't take care of him. After she had an accident, he is her own son now?”
“Then are all our family your grandchildren?”
“You didn't care about him at all before, so stop acting like a devoted parent now that trouble has hit!”
In Chinese family disputes, failing to raise or support someone ('bu guan') strips a parent or relative of the moral right to claim biological closeness ('qin') later on. Invoking kinship only during a crisis (or for compensation) is heavily mocked.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
something bad happened; ran into trouble; had an accident
Extremely common in spoken Chinese to announce or refer to an unexpected crisis, accident, or legal trouble.
biological son; one's own flesh-and-blood son
Often used sarcastically in arguments to highlight favoritism or, conversely, sudden fake affection after long neglect.
Marks a change of state in both clauses, contrasting past neglect with the sudden, ironic shift in status after the crisis.
