由不得你说不愿了
“You no longer get to refuse.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
都已经到现在了
“We have come this far already.”
由不得你 说 不愿 了
“You no longer get to refuse.”
“Must we speak in this position?”
Direct spoken expression in this communicative setting.
Statements asserting absolute control over another person's consent frequently appear in dramatic power struggles or romantic 'overbearing' tropes in Chinese cinema.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
not up to someone; beyond one's control or choice
Followed by a pronoun or person to indicate that the subject has no say or veto power over what happens next.
to express unwillingness; to refuse
A slightly literary or dramatic way in spoken Chinese to mean rejecting an offer or arrangement.
Signifies a change of state, stressing that the window for negotiation or refusal has completely closed.