这婚你是偷着跟我结的
“Did you marry me secretly?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
是不是你儿子不同意
“Your son disapproves of it?”
这婚你是偷着跟我结的
“Did you marry me secretly?”
你想好了
“Make up your mind. Tell your kids.”
“Stop pretending everything is fine—you kept our marriage a secret because you knew your family would object.”
Marriage in China often unites two families rather than just two individuals; marrying secretly ('偷着结') without parental or filial consent creates intense domestic guilt and relational instability.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
secretly; stealthily behind someone's back
Describes doing something covertly to avoid discovery or interference by parents or authority.
to marry someone
Standard pattern for marrying someone; '结' indicates the act of tying the knot.
Part of the '是...的' cleft construction used to emphasize the secretive manner in which the action occurred.