我不是那意思啊 费霓 我明白
“Fei Ni, that's not what I mean... I understand.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“If so, how could my mother let you...”
我不是 那 意思 啊 费霓 我明白
“Fei Ni, that's not what I mean... I understand.”
所以我这不是提前跟你说一声吗 你和许主任
“That's why I'm telling you this in advance. If both you and Ms. Xu”
“Please don't misunderstand me or feel bad; I completely see things from your perspective.”
When discussing sensitive issues like parental disapproval, speakers proactively soften misperceptions to maintain interpersonal harmony and protect mutual feelings.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
did not mean it that way
A very common phrase used to clarify intentions when you realize your words sounded harsher or different than intended.
Softens the urgent clarification, reducing defensiveness and conveying warmth.