那你让我怎么办嘛 人家张老师
“Then what position will you leave me in? Mrs. Zhang”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“I have been single for so many years. I'm used to it already.”
那 你让我怎么办 嘛 人家 张老师
“Then what position will you leave me in? Mrs. Zhang”
有手有脚的个大活人 人家到你店里
“acts of her own free will. Can I order her”
“Don't blame me; I was put on the spot and couldn't just turn them away.”
In Chinese social culture, rejecting someone who shows goodwill or visits in person is socially difficult and can damage relationships.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
what do you expect me to do
Commonly used to plead helplessness or deflect responsibility when caught between two parties.
they / the other party
Used to refer politely or empathically to a third party to validate their feelings or standing.
Appeals for mutual understanding while expressing mild exasperation or obviousness.
