这可不是我们的主意 是你家李尖尖说的
“This is not our idea. That's your Li Jianjian’s idea.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你说但这事怎么就 就扯到孩子见面了 这
“But how can this matter involve the children meeting each other?”
这 可不是 我们的主意 是你家李尖尖 说的
“This is not our idea. That's your Li Jianjian’s idea.”
她说两家人坐在一起 聊聊天 相看一下品性
“She suggested the two families sit together to chat and learn about each other.”
“Don't blame me for being nosy—your own daughter asked for this!”
In Chinese culture, meetings arranged for prospective romantic matches often involve both families sizing up each other's moral character ('pinxing') and familial compatibility.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
definitely not (in this emphatic context)
Here '可' acts as an emphatic adverb modifying the negation '不是' to strongly disclaim an assumption.
your (family/child)
A common informal prefix before someone's name to denote kinship, implying 'your child / your family member'.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“Anyway, I'll definitely stop Li Jianjian”
“Li Jianjian doesn't hold that kind of feeling towards neither of us.”
“We are not visiting Li Jianjian's, we are going to Haichao Noodles for dinner”