不拒绝她就不懂得知难而退
“won't take the hint unless you reject her.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
但这女孩子吧 有的时候
“But women, sometimes,”
不拒绝 她就 不懂 得 知难而退
“won't take the hint unless you reject her.”
你就看在我的面子上
“Just for my sake,”
Direct spoken expression in this communicative setting.
While Chinese interpersonal communication often prizes face-saving indirectness, persistent courtship often requires unambiguous rejection to establish firm boundaries.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to back off in the face of difficulties; retreat sensibly
A common four-character idiom frequently used when urging someone to abandon an unpromising pursuit.