你可不能怪他
“You can't blame him.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
他现在比你还难受
“he's hurting even more than you are right now.”
你 可不能 怪他
“You can't blame him.”
“As for what really happened,”
“Please don't hold a grudge; he is suffering as much as you are.”
Chinese interpersonal communication often prioritizes dampening blame and preventing interpersonal fractures during times of mutual crisis.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
must not / really should not
Used to add an emphatic, earnest cautionary tone when advising someone against doing something.
blame him
A common conversational phrase used when assigning or deflecting personal fault.