你用你的是非标准 自以为在帮我
“You judged everything by your own standards and thought you were helping me.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
我帮你还帮出问题了是吧
“So helping you was my mistake?”
你用 你的 是非标准 自以为在帮我
“You judged everything by your own standards and thought you were helping me.”
“But what you think is good for me isn't helping me at all.”
“Stop acting like my savior; your self-righteous meddling is ruining things for me.”
In Chinese relationships, doing something 'for your own good' (为你好) is common, but when unaligned with the recipient's needs, it creates emotional burden and relational friction.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
moral standards; criteria of right and wrong
Used in discussions or arguments when criticizing someone for imposing subjective moral judgments.
to assume self-righteously; to flatter oneself that
Carries a critical or pejorative tone indicating that the subject's belief is misguided.
