但是这种以为的对我好 并不能帮到我
“But what you think is good for me isn't helping me at all.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“You judged everything by your own standards and thought you were helping me.”
但是这种 以为的对我好 并 不能 帮到我
“But what you think is good for me isn't helping me at all.”
“You're way too controlling. What?”
“Your patronizing help is selfish and suffocating, not supportive.”
In Chinese relational dynamics, doing things 'for your own good' is often used to justify overstepping boundaries, which younger generations increasingly push back against as patriarchal or suffocating.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to assume self-righteously; to flatter oneself that
Used critically to point out someone's misguided assumptions that lack self-awareness.
to be good to me; to treat me well
A frequent interpersonal expression describing affection, care, or benevolence.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“I was helping you, okay? Did I ask for your help?”
“And he was unusually generous.”
“but at least, I could be good to you.”
“I helped him out with good intentions,”
“what exactly do I gain from his misunderstanding?”
“this nice to me?”