那有事儿没事儿都来找你 而且
“He's running to you for everything and...”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
这事虽然我能理解 但方穆扬他毕竟是个大男人
“I get that. But he's still a grown man.”
那 有事儿没事儿 都 来找你 而且
“He's running to you for everything and...”
而且他还没有什么分寸 这对你不好 对我们也不好
“He doesn't seem to know boundaries. That's not good for you or for us.”
“His constant presence around you is inappropriate and makes me very uncomfortable.”
Maintaining interpersonal boundaries (分寸) between opposite-sex acquaintances is heavily scrutinized in Chinese relationships to avoid public gossip and partner jealousy.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
whether there is a reason or not / constantly / all the time
A very common colloquial Northern idiom used to describe someone doing something excessively or without specific justification.