但是你也可以选择好好想一想
“Or you could really think it through.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你可以这么安慰自己
“You can comfort yourself with that.”
但是 你 也可以 选择好好想一想
“Or you could really think it through.”
为什么他可以云淡风轻地
“Why can he accept your past”
“Stop making excuses for yourself and face the cold hard truth.”
In Chinese social and emotional interactions between close friends, when one person is trapped in self-deception over a relationship, a true friend will often directly point out their blind spots and urge them to 'hao hao xiang yi xiang' (think it over carefully) to help them face reality.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to think over carefully; to reflect deeply
A very common colloquial phrase used to urge or advise someone. The reduplicated adverb 'hao hao' indicates a serious, thorough attitude.
to choose to...; to decide to adopt a certain approach or attitude
Used to suggest an alternative possibility or course of action, often encouraging the listener to shift their perspective.
