她要不要是她的事
“Whether she accepts it or not is up to her.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
她不会要的
“She won't accept it.”
她 要不要 是她的事
“Whether she accepts it or not is up to her.”
“But shouldn't we at least show our sincerity?”
“Her response doesn't excuse us from doing the right thing and showing good faith.”
In Chinese culture, offering a gift or gesture demonstrates propriety and sincerity, which remains necessary even if the giver knows it will be politely declined.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
whether one wants (it) or not
A common A-not-A question format used to present two opposing options.
is someone's own business / concern
Used to establish personal boundaries or emphasize autonomy in decision-making.