我都不记得他长什么样子了
“I can hardly recall his face,”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
我父亲是谢临山
“and that my father was Xie Linshan.”
我都 不记得 他 长什么样 子了
“I can hardly recall his face,”
但我还能记得
“yet the barely”
“It has been so long that his face is entirely gone from my memory, which aches.”
In Chinese culture, where filial memory and ancestral ties are paramount, admitting you cannot recall a father's face underscores deep tragedy or prolonged trauma.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
don't even remember
Use '都' as an intensifier before negative verbs to emphasize a surprising or regrettable lack of recollection.
what someone/something looks like
A highly natural colloquial phrase for inquiring about or describing personal appearance.
Marks a change of state, highlighting that the memory has now faded away over time.