可是你们这种 在背后调查别人的做法
“But what you did— investigating behind my back—”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
我也是 我不想说出 任何伤害你和伤害她的话
“and so am I. I don't want to say anything that would hurt you or her.”
可是 你们这种 在背后调查 别人的做法
“But what you did— investigating behind my back—”
让我觉得很不齿
“it feels shameful to me.”
“You crossed the line by going behind our backs, and it is completely dishonorable.”
Chinese interpersonal ethics place high moral value on acting uprightly in the open (光明正大), whereas doing things behind people's backs (在背后) is severely stigmatized as dishonorable.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
behind someone's back
Commonly used to describe secretive, sneaky, or treacherous actions taken without someone's knowledge.
this kind of behavior / this way of doing things
Used to frame and isolate a specific conduct as a target for moral judgment or evaluation.