不就是你纵容的吗
“it's partly your fault, wasn't it?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
我妈现在变成这样一个 不跟别人商量的个性
“My mother turned into such a person who never discussed things with us,”
不就是你纵容的吗
“it's partly your fault, wasn't it?”
你为了避免跟她争执
“You allowed her to do anything,”
Direct spoken expression in this communicative setting.
In Chinese domestic dynamics, striving for superficial peace (和为贵) often leads to passive indulgence, which younger generations may later criticize as enabling toxic habits.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
isn't it precisely because...?
A highly rhetorical and confrontational construction used to present an obvious cause that the listener is trying to evade.
Converts the statement into a rhetorical question to demand acknowledgment of responsibility.
VOCABULARY & EXPRESSIONS
Parallel Spoken Cinema Scenes (语义近邻切片)
“I really shouldn't have indulged you so much. You just decide to leave”
“By using his, you are just enabling him. Come on.”