你也要往心里去的啦
“You should also take that to heart.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
你 也要 往心里去 的啦
“You should also take that to heart.”
阿姐
“Sis,”
“Your younger brother is already ahead of you, so stop slacking and get serious about dating.”
Traditional Chinese family dynamics place heavy expectations on the elder sibling to marry first; having a younger sibling partner up first creates social and familial pressure on the elder.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
to take something to heart / to take something seriously
Frequently used either to advise someone to care about an important matter or, in the negative (别往心里去), to tell someone not to take offense.
Softens the imperative tone while adding an affectionate, persuasive, and colloquial reminder flavor.