到时候您也找一个 与自己 门当户对的女子吧
“♪ Everything exists because of you ♪ By then, you should also find a woman ♪ Every step together brings joy ♪ who is a suitable match for your status.”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
将来去山西经营
“♪ Everything exists because of you ♪ I'll go to Shanxi to do business in the future.”
到时候 您也找一个 与 自己 门当户对 的女子吧
“♪ Everything exists because of you ♪ By then, you should also find a woman ♪ Every step together brings joy ♪ who is a suitable match for your status.”
我还有事
“♪ Every step together brings joy ♪ I have matters to attend to.”
“We are from different worlds and cannot be together, so please give up on me and find someone who fits your station.”
Traditional Chinese marriage values harmony in family background and wealth over individual passion, making it a very common and socially unassailable polite excuse for rejection.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
well-matched in social standing and economic background
A core chengyu frequently cited in discussions of traditional Chinese marriage standards.
when the time comes; at that time
Used to project into a future scenario in a casual or semi-formal manner.
Softens the imperative into a gentle suggestion, mitigating potential direct offense.
