如果你心里过不去这坎儿
“If you can't get past this mental block,”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
显然今天不是一个 解决这个问题的最佳时机
“Obviously, today isn't the best time to resolve this issue.”
如果你 心里过不去 这 坎儿
“If you can't get past this mental block,”
我可以接受暂时分居
“I can accept a temporary separation.”
“I know you resent me right now, so let's take some time apart before we destroy everything.”
In Chinese emotional discourse, 'kan'er' conceptualizes a difficult emotional bottleneck that tests the durability of interpersonal or marital bonds.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
unable to get over a psychological hurdle or grudge
A highly common northern idiom used when someone cannot emotionally forgive, move on, or accept a traumatic or disappointing event.