你是不是磨不开面 拉不下脸
“Are you too embarrassed? Too proud to do it?”
THE DIALOGUE REEL
“we have to use his own methods against him.”
你 是不是 磨不开面 拉不下脸
“Are you too embarrassed? Too proud to do it?”
行 我现在就去
“Fine, I'll go right now.”
“Don't let petty pride and fear of embarrassment paralyze you from doing what must be done.”
Expressions like '磨不开面' and '拉不下脸' capture how Chinese social interactions can be paralyzed by excessive regard for mutual feelings and self-image, often requiring direct provocation to break.
LEARNING CHUNKS & PARTICLES
too embarrassed / unable to overcome social awkwardness
An idiomatic northern idiom describing hesitation to act or speak out due to politeness or fear of losing face.
unable to swallow one's pride
Used when someone refuses to confront, apologize, or take necessary action because of pride.